Friday, August 31, 2012

Relaying information is not the same thing as relaying emotion. One of the first lessons I learned about communicating was from the movie “STRATEGIC COMMAND” with James Stewart. Jimmy is in an airplane crash in Greenland while his wife June Allison is having a babe. He is rescued and receives a telegram telling him that the baby has arrived and June wanted to know what to name it. Jimmy replies, “I can’t think of anything. But hope everything is fine.” June receives it as “I can’t think of anything but Hope. Everything is fine.” So of course she names the baby Hope, luckily it was a girl. Putting that period in a different spot changes the meaning and therefore the results. I have been trained for 30+ years to relay (communicate) information. To eliminate ambiguity and to be precise in what I say. I have been taught to remove emotion and judgmental words from my correspondence. As a result it is hard for me to not over describe. To assume the reader will get what I mean. Because of this, It gets boring. I am aware of it and working on it.

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